That's a good speech. I really hope the republican party and its ideals die out, but I don't think it's going to go peacefully.
jtrek
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the librarian isn’t picking the books for you dude. you can also go to other libraries
You can go to other platforms, so I'm not sure what this is a rebuttal of.
and them thinking I’m a huge asshole
I mean... if you behave in person like you do here, you might be coming off as not very fun
Saying "the apps don't match people" and "the apps provide a platform [for matching]" is I guess technically true but disingenuous. You could say, like, libraries don't give you books. You have to go and check it out yourself. Yeah, kind of, but people go there with a purpose the platform is (nominally) intended to fulfill.
your success on the app is a product of your attractiveness
I don't know if that's really true. I'm middling attractive and had a lot of success. There are a lot of factors.
I don't think the sweeping generalizations about people are really helpful. Is this making you happy? Are you doing okay in your dating life?
I feel like we've had this conversation before.
Moving to a new city without a financial plan is a dubious idea, yeah. Especially since the current economic situation is Bad.
I'm not buying into techno evangelism. I'm saying that given a choice between a good faith effort to match users with compatible dates, and something else that will make money, they will almost always choose to make money. You can have success on the apps, but they're not trying to get that success rate very high.
Furthermore, many problems people face in dating are present with or without apps. The behavioral and emotional provlems you allude to, I expect.
The dating apps are definitely not optimized for user dating success.
That said, a lot of people self sabotage in their dating life. The apps aren't going to put in a lot of effort to stop you from doing that.
NYC isn't cheap but sometimes you get what you pay for. But yeah, $2000/mo rent is probably eye popping for a lot of people. You save a lot by not having a car, though. Or roommates can also cut the cost.
What a piece of shit. I hope he lives the rest of his miserable days poor and forgotten.
It wasn't "brain washing"! They believed in naziism just like magas do. Stop denying their agency. They picked it. You all picked it.
$4500 was in my head because that was the projected mortgage+taxes+fees for a 2BR apartment in brooklyn I saw the other day.
There are some apartments in NYC that are that expensive to rent. Average here is $3,650, but that's skewed by a lot of stupid expensive places. Median is a little lower.
Other parts of the country can be much cheaper, but sometimes you get what you pay for.
You are also missing private retirement funds
Good call.
(and if car dependent 100/month seems very low for transit costs)
That's a good point. I rely on mass transit, which is much cheaper.
Don’t blame the tool, blame the user 😁
I compare it to snapshot tests a lot. They're similarly constrained by "good if used wisely" but most people don't do that. It's easier to use them extensively. That's just how people are. They do the easy thing
I don't understand how so many people played final fantasy 7 and the only lesson they seemed to take from the story is "tifa got big titties"