You really lucked out there!
It's funny, I tried to explain to my wife on our first date and she totally didn't understand the concept of BDSM ... to her it was something baddies did on TV.
Yet we settled into lifestyle D/s everywhere apart from the bedroom, lol
Ah ok, I assumed your objection would be for giving rather than receiving ... typically "I don't do butt stuff" crops up in conversation before you tie someone up, and that I would respect
Amiga, the superior computing platform of the 20th century
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I think it's genetic sometimes - I didn't have a single grey hair until I was 35, which is when a bunch of health stuff kicked off.
Still don't have much grey at 48, and my grandfather was only about 50/50 when he died at 85.
I have not had a stress-free life.
Indeed. I seem to be a magnet for baby gays
Aww, that sounds so sweet! I'm glad you found at least one partner that you're well matched with :-)
Yup, gotta say that it took a few years after being a pro with men that I felt any urge to domme ... and now I'm looking for a compatible fem sub I'm not keeping my hopes up
Really?
OK then, let me convince you - after a previous bad experience I just stick to the outside, where it's easy to check everythings clean. You can even make cleaning the area part of the play.
If you tie down your sub with their backside in the air, and reduce their senses with a blindfold, hood, or whatever, it can be a very very intense sensation for them. Plus, it can be a surprise, especially if mixed in with more harsh forms of play. I've never bothered with consent for rimming just on the outside, assuming they've consented to traditional s/m activities.
Well, if you ever want an internet hug / spanking to take the edge off, let me know ;-)
lol
Edit: don't worry, you're safe - I'm on another continent ;-)
I have been an aggressive driver in the past, but I've gotta say that some serious time in developing nations has really chilled me the fuck out.
One coworker said his commute was his favourite time of day, because he just putters along at 20mph on his scooter and feels at peace with the world ... I could use that in my life :-)
"These days I feel butts are for hitting, grabbing, and displaying handkerchiefs."
Still plenty of repertoire there, then!
As for hemorrhoids, between them and other issues from overuse, I ended up having surgery ... can't do internal butt stuff now, but at least I'll get to old age with normal function. I miss it sometimes, but I guess that's part of surviving far longer than anyone expected!