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I think it was considered normal for couples to argue pretty much daily.

How many people grew up thinking that marriage is supposed to look like that ? My gawd. People must have been miserable.

Probably likely for a lot of folks. It took so. damn. long. for divorce to be made legal across the western world, and even longer than that to get to the point where the burden of an unhappy marriage was no longer outweighed by the scandal of divorce.

Before no-fault divorces became common, unhappy couples would sometimes even voluntarily fake an affair just to act as "proof" of adultery for a divorce.

This was my experience. There was a local video rental place we used to go to that later sold out to Blockbuster, and everything just got far worse when they did.

You gotta throw me a bone here Mickey, what am I even looking at?

For the more specific example, for any curious, the character Switch from the first movie was originally meant to be trans.

Switch was intended to be biologically male outside of the Matrix but then be female inside the Matrix, based on the way the system represents people by their self-image.

The production studio axed that idea, and the actress who was originally intended to only play 1/2 of the character ended up playing them outside the Matrix as well. The best they could do was keep the name and make Switch look androgynous.

I wanted to build a computer a couple years ago, but the prices they were charging for individual components even then just didn't make sense compared to buying a more affordable, comparably strong pre-built.

I can't imagine trying to build one now with these RAM prices, it's insane.

Did the GPU shortages ever really end, though? We just have more shortages on top of it.

With this version to compare with, it looks like someone went out of their way to edit the eyes of the one in the post to make it more of a racist caricature...

That was my understanding. Dad wants to make his kid's dream of being a pop star come true, so he spends tons of money to make it happen, and she became a meme because all the money can't make up for lack of talent. There was probably also some schadenfreude when held against all of the other artificially boosted Disney pop star kids who were still in the internet's collective memory at the time.

I should also say that I have no opinions on Rebecca Black as a person, she could be a really lovely and genuine person for all I know. And apparently she is still out there making music, which is fine if it makes her happy.

But damn did I hate hearing that song. Still do. It's just a bad song.

Definitely something to be said about how gender isn't "real," but people's perception of it is.

There's no pattern of masculine or feminine behavior/style that is consistent across cultures and throughout history. It's all arbitrary.

But that binary perception of masculine/feminine is nevertheless all around us, even if it's not consistently represented.

I'd like to think that not much would change about my style or mannerisms if I had been born with different parts, and I find it odd how unnecessarily gendered so many aspects of society are. I'm just "me," what else would I want to be? But I also need to remind myself that I only think that way because I've never had to worry about being seen as something other than what I am, even if I don't feel that strongly about it. It's easy to overlook just how much of my life experience has been colored by my effortless gender presentation.

Not everyone gets that by default, and it's hard to put myself in those shoes because I simply can't understand what it's like to be viewed as the opposite gender, or why it might cause discomfort.

If I were airlifted to some other culture that viewed pants as feminine and skirts as masculine, would I toss all of my jeans to conform? I'd like to think I wouldn't, because I like the comfort of pants and attributing a gender standard to clothes has always seemed silly to me. But if it affected the way people saw me, I just might.

Maybe Christ is just a euphemism for cock

Just the types of people who are still on Twitter. You know, absolute degenerates.

It never hurts just to start tossing out applications and see what you get. The best way to get better at interviewing is to do more interviews. Even if you think your odds of landing something are low, just go into it with the mentality of getting more practice until it feels comfortable. And who knows, you might be surprised by a good offer.

But I would also recommend being selective with where you apply, too. Basically don't sell your skillset too low, and don't apply for the types of open-ended jobs that will attract thousands of applicants and only waste your time. It can be absolutely soul crushing to send out 100 applications and never even get a response from 90 of them, but a good opportunity will come along eventually and you can develop a sense of which listings aren't worth your time.