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[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 10 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

I ‘flirt’ because dudes assume thats what I'm doing when I'm just having a conversation, and panic when they treat it like flirting. Because it isn't, ever, I’m ace/aro, keep your dick in your pants; I just like human connection.

But I’m also a chick magnet and I can’t explain that away with basic human decency..? I guess I give off vibes? I mean ladies are 1,000,000 more appealing than men, but I still don't want to sex them (tried both, meh)

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

"Ace" is the same as asexual?

[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Yea, sorry, ace/asexual and aro/aromantic or not into relationships that aren't platonic :)

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 0 points 14 minutes ago

I'm so sorry

[–] DoomProphet@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Have you tried not being attractive? /s

[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago

I’m open to advice, but yes, I make no effort to be attractive. I’m clearly not a great judge, but I wouldn't fuck me ;)