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Having a very kinky threesome does fit the description well too. I did dodge out 2 decades ago because my female partner wasn't into swapping, but nowaday i would think different.
It's more awkward than fantasies would lead you to believe, but when you get the right combo of people involved, they can be very, very fun.
I have enough performance anxiety with 1 partner thank you
Group sex is not for everyone, that's true lol
Nowadays my focus lies on meeting as few people as possible. If someone wants someone like me as a third, i wouldn't complain, but i prefer being on my own without any strings attached.
e: i've never been shy in any form, so i guess my mentality itself might be a good fit. If there's anyone out there in Vienna looking for a 3rd, message me, i guess. I just need acceptance and being able to pleasure female parts.
E2: funnily enough, after thinking about it, i really mean it. I'd love to pleasure someone, and i'd love to get pleasured back. Didn't think this exchange would push me that far since i am pretty antisocial most of my life.