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[–] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Having a very kinky threesome does fit the description well too. I did dodge out 2 decades ago because my female partner wasn't into swapping, but nowaday i would think different.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

It's more awkward than fantasies would lead you to believe, but when you get the right combo of people involved, they can be very, very fun.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I have enough performance anxiety with 1 partner thank you

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 44 minutes ago

Group sex is not for everyone, that's true lol

[–] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Nowadays my focus lies on meeting as few people as possible. If someone wants someone like me as a third, i wouldn't complain, but i prefer being on my own without any strings attached.

e: i've never been shy in any form, so i guess my mentality itself might be a good fit. If there's anyone out there in Vienna looking for a 3rd, message me, i guess. I just need acceptance and being able to pleasure female parts.

E2: funnily enough, after thinking about it, i really mean it. I'd love to pleasure someone, and i'd love to get pleasured back. Didn't think this exchange would push me that far since i am pretty antisocial most of my life.