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[–] oxideseven@lemmy.ca 3 points 41 minutes ago

I love septum piercings, and piercings in general. And tattoos. And weird hair.

[–] FrChazzz@lemmus.org 9 points 1 hour ago

Am I the only one low-key annoyed that the photo does not show a septum piercing (I understand it's called a "smiley" piercing--done on the frenulum of the upper lip)? It's Alysa Liu's signature look.

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 32 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

Ha! I thought the punchline would be something like "they're an effective deterrent."

[–] missphant@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] trashcroissant@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 49 minutes ago (1 children)

That rainbow hair looks cool af

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 1 points 47 minutes ago

Unfortunately, not for very long

[–] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago

If I’m ever single again I may get one just to help filter out closet conservatives.

[–] Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Same.

I expect Bluey tattoos to start becoming more popular in red states.

[–] thejml@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Because Bluey is Australian? I've got to be missing something there...

Maybe it was a bit a reach for a joke. It's just that some conservatives have called tattos on women "unattractive." So if parents started letting their young kids get tattoos as a repellent, those kids might choose childrens' TV show characters like Bluey.

[–] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 34 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

I just find them unnattractive; generally not into piercings or tattoos. To each their own...

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 3 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Same.

Although maybe "unnattractive" isn't a good fit because I do understand that it's not a woman's default objective to "be attractive" to me. It's more just that maybe I'm a bit weird about ears and noses. If you have something hanging out of your nose my lizard brain alerts me that it's probably a booger. My more sophisticated hominid brain is aware that it's not, but this creates a kind of unsolvable feedback loop that's unsolvable.

Yesterday I was interviewing a candidate for a job. I'm genuinely trying to listen and engage with this cacophony of booger not-booger booger not-booger going on.

[–] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 3 points 51 minutes ago* (last edited 50 minutes ago)

I didn't say it was anyone's objective to be attractive to me. And it isn't. I just have (as does everyone else) the agency to decide for myself what I find attractive or not.

Thank you for pointing out the possibly ambiguity of my response though, so I could clarify.

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 1 points 45 minutes ago

Although maybe "unnattractive" isn't a good fit because I do understand that it's not a woman's default objective to "be attractive" to me.

When you say that something is unattractive , it's your personal opinion which you are entitled to. It's fine. We are people, we are diverse.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 13 points 3 hours ago

Same, and it's not something I really care to shout from the roof because why does my opinion matter and I don't want to tell people what to do in the first place, but it's also something I can never say even in passing because of what group of people it puts me in

[–] aburrito@sh.itjust.works -4 points 44 minutes ago (1 children)

Why’d you feel the need to comment about that?

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 3 points 21 minutes ago (1 children)

It's the topic of discussion. And this is a place to share thoughts, ideas and opinions. Since this wasn't somebody's post for themselves, they gave their opinion. Rather respectfully, I might add. So although we like to pretend everyone is of all the same opinions here, that's not the case.

[–] aburrito@sh.itjust.works 0 points 12 minutes ago* (last edited 11 minutes ago) (1 children)

I never said he couldn’t, I just asked why, cause like:

“Pedophiles dont like nose rings cause children can’t get them”

“No I just think they’re ugly”

[–] stevestevesteve@lemmy.world 2 points 7 minutes ago

Work on your reading comprehension. "People who don't like nose rings are pedophiles" is the bigger statement they were responding to

[–] MBech@feddit.dk 12 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

I'm sorry what? You gotta be over 18 to get a septum piercing in USA? Why???

[–] tpihkal@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago

You can but you'd need to have a parent present to give permission. Or...you can be me in your teens and just do all your own piercings.

[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Infection liability, gotta be old enough to sign that you won't sue for infection or disfigurement.

[–] Chronographs@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think your parent can sign those for you though

[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Parent can let you get anything if they let you. You mist be 18 to do it for yourself.

[–] Chronographs@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Sure but it’s actually legal, a parent can’t legally buy you cigarettes or alcohol for example.

[–] adarza@piefed.ca 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

parents can booze-up their kids in wisconsin, as long as it's in their presence.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I think that's most states. As long as the parent is still responsible for the kid drinking and they stay home.

[–] tpihkal@lemmy.world 1 points 12 minutes ago

I can guarantee you that is not true, at least not in every state.

[–] MBech@feddit.dk 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Suing for infection? It's practically impossible to prove an infection was from an error by the piercer. It's more likely the person just didn't clean it properly.

[–] oxideseven@lemmy.ca 1 points 43 minutes ago

Hence the waivers

[–] arctanthrope@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I feel the same when I scroll past comments on porn sites and see people complaining that the actress has tattoos. why does that ruin it for you so much, bud?

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 1 points 42 minutes ago* (last edited 40 minutes ago)

why does that ruin it for you so much, bud?

Because of personal taste? 🤷🏾‍♂️
And to be honest: some tattoos are poorly done.

[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

not a fan of the booger piercing, but just a personal taste thing

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 hours ago

When my husband got his he said he could smell it healing and that's a no for me dawg. He removed it not long after.

[–] Danarchy@lemmy.nz -2 points 59 minutes ago

Wait I thought the septum was another name for the gooch

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

You kidding me? Tons of kids in my highschool had septum piercings

[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

how you blow your nose then? what's the plan, never get sick? lol

[–] chocrates@piefed.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

You blow it like normal and pick any boogs out of the ring that get left behind

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 2 points 40 minutes ago
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Almost every girl whos ever shown interest in me had a septum piercing lol

[–] Thatuserguy@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Please tell me the secret to your success

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 1 points 39 minutes ago

Be a piercer

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world -4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] stevestevesteve@lemmy.world 2 points 9 minutes ago

I thought you had to be 13 to post on lemmy