"partner gets WAY more into the kink than the one who initially proposed it" is funny in pretty much every configuration lmao
this post was submitted on 13 Jun 2026
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I don’t get race play. I’ve been with people of other races and never even began to consider race play. I have to wonder how someone finds it sexy to consider race. Is it related to dom/sub, but expanded to all of society?
Much of kink is people playing with the things that feel heavy to them in ways that push their buttons.
Race and the dynamics around it are a heavy thing that we internalize as part of our social conditioning, and for some people they have a desire to play with it.
Personally I have no interest, and its important for people to remember that the heavy things they like to play with are difficult subjects and to treat them with care (often people do not adequately engage with why raceplay is so heavy, and then engage with others in a shitty way as a result. At which point it is not play, just racism). But as long as folks treat the subject with the appropriate respect and sensitivity until they've negotiated a dynamic and then stay within what's negotiated I see it as being similar to all the other ways folks like to play with the things that are heavy to them. Like consentual nonconsent, where people roleplay nonconsentual sex, or forced feminization as a way of playing with the harmful way men are measured against a metric of masculinity and punished for failing by comparing them to women as degradation.
But then, I'm white, so folks actually impacted by the heaviness of the subject may feel differently, and its important to listen to people actually impacted by something. In the kink community in my area it crops up as a point of contention periodically.
It has racist roots. Like sissy and bimbo kinks have misogynist roots and orientation play has homophobic roots. None of these kinks are problematic. You are into what they are into and any way two adult consenting partners get each other off should be celebrated.
Sexual relations are the continuation of normal relations, making sexuality a mirror reflecting society. Findom reflects class relations, D/S reflects gender relations, SM reflects christianity, race play reflects racism, etc.
SM reflects Christianity? Maybe for some I guess but I'm sure people from all religious backgrounds and none enjoy S&M.
I'm literally married to someone of another ethnicity and we've never wanted to do race play.
How's it any different from play involving any other physical attribute?
I can find size, masculinity, feet, smell, whatever sexy because of power dynamics or stimulation. I don’t understand stimulation from race, but power dynamics maybe? But that’s stretching my perspective. Do you engage in race play and are you willing to elucidate me?
You might find a better edification with your local kink community, though I'm just another random anon, so 🤷🏽♂️
Sometimes I feel like women only want me for my BWC.
Hi Albert!
Well most water closets are tiled and can't be.jumped on at all.
If it's tiled, though, it's at least duo-chromatic, right? I'm no expert on the spec for black water closets, but I'm pretty sure there some sort of vetting sequence. Maybe. Is there a commode doc around here?
Ooooh, black water closets. Bouncy is my forte and I just assumed. How embarassing.
See also: Introducing people to music, tv shows etc. who get way more into it than you ever did.
Literally my brother with every game I introduce him to. Makes it where I can never play any with him cuz by the time I can get around to actually playing with him, bruh went and beat the game on his own so he's trying to speed run it when we play.