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[–] lIlIlIlIlIlIl@lemmy.world 90 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

There is only one correct answer: stop using Facebook

[–] Z745812939054@lemmy.zip 18 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

after years of saying this, i gave up. people have integrated facebook into their lives to the degree that saying "delete facebook" is pretty much the same as saying "cut your own balls off." they won't do it, no matter if they even acknowledge facebook sucks and is a waste of time. that's rare, though. usually it's "i can't leave facebook, i would lose contact with everyone!" same shit with twitter, instagram, ticktock, snapchat--all that bullshit

[–] dudesss@piefed.ca 2 points 1 hour ago

For me, gradually gathering other contacts methods for my close friends and family. And then eventually permanently delete Facebook -- no need for data or whatever, it was mostly garbage anyways.

Same process with changing email providers.

[–] architect@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

You will be locked out of your local community without Facebook. I’ve been off it for over a decade but needed to get rid of a couch without paying $150 to do it and Facebook was 10 minutes and it’s gone. But a couch is one thing. Anything local requires Facebook.

[–] Z745812939054@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

what's the $150 to get rid of a couch for? just drive it to the landfill

or call salvation army/goodwill/habitat for humanity-- they'll come get whatever

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 minutes ago (1 children)

Landfill doesn't take it for free. It's probably $50 and maybe borrow a trailer and a vehicle with a hitch.

[–] Z745812939054@lemmy.zip 1 points 15 minutes ago (1 children)

again, i give up. use facebook, because life can't be lived without it

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 12 minutes ago

Nah. I mean I’m off Facebook and own a trailer. I'm actually on your side I'm just trying to be realistic. $150 is too high unless you have to hire a company to haul it away.

You can totally leave Facebook. My wife is still on it but I think she doesn't use it as much. It's dying, just far too slowly.

[–] CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

It's the same way everyone talks about how dating apps suck and it's ruined dating, etc. But what is the real alternative?

[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago

But what is the real alternative?

Go out and meet people?

[–] Z745812939054@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

It’s the same way everyone talks about how dating apps suck and it’s ruined dating, etc. But what is the real alternative?

dating apps are different in that you're specifically using it to get a date, instead of trying to make your life look more fun/happy/glamorous than that of your "friends". once you meet someone and start a relationship, the app served its purpose and (in theory) you stop using it. i've never used a dating app, but i can see the value in them for people who are looking for specific less-than-common traits in a partner-- if you're asexual (for example) and looking for someone who's the same, then an app might be the only way you can find that someone. the alternative is go out looking on your own every day until you happen across whatever specific thing you're looking for by chance, which may never happen.

[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

But what is the real alternative?

Go out and meet people?

[–] Manjushri@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I get what you're saying, and to a certain extent you are correct, but where do you go to meet people when all the people you might meet are sitting at home swiping their phone screen?

[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

don't know where you live but where I live, the outside is full of real people

[–] Zoot@reddthat.com 1 points 14 minutes ago

No they do have a point. How are you to meet people with similar interests, if your similar interests are "Enjoys staying at home and being cozy all day"

[–] CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I remember when the backlash to Xitter was pretty high, culturally. I asked why our company was still using Xitter.

Crickets. And even after he gave the Nazi salute, still no change.

The answer is - "that's where everyone is". They aren't wrong. The network effect sucks.

[–] kestrel7_7@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Meh. “That’s where everyone is” it’s more like that’s where all the bots and algorithmic gatekeeping are. I get way more engagement on mastodon than I ever did on twitter post-2012 algorithm shakeup. Before the algorithmic censorship, I got lots of engagement on twitter. But that twitter hasn’t existed for a long time. When I got on mastodon it was like oh. The algorithm is the entire problem. No wonder OWS and the Arab spring were so big. No wonder the algorithms came after them.

[–] Stormy@thelemmy.club 1 points 2 hours ago

It's owned and ran by a openly nazi guy, and is clearly manipulated with his bots, but politicians almost everywhere are still using it. Its crazy

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 1 points 1 hour ago

Exactly!!!! Share that with your friends!!!